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Negative Friends & People

Hey bloggers, its been quite sometime since I’ve blogged. Its good to take a couple of weeks off so you can go through new experiences that will make your blog just that tiny bit better. Hope you have ALL been well, remember if you need some advice or simply someone to talk to go to my “Contact” page and just send me a little e-mail.

Today’s blog  post is about our everyday surroundings. Especially the whole Monday – Friday routine, don’t know about most of you but yes,sadly I have a routine during the week. Everyday starts with WORK. Now I am lucky that I work with two of my closest friends so it does make work more fun at times but at times it’s also a curse in disguise. Spending so much time with someone can put a strain on any relationship. Now,our thoughts,actions and general outcome of the day all depends on our spiritual energy. By this I mean how we feel. Sure we all have  bad days,its normal we are human!. Can we prevent some of these days? Simple answer is YES . Speaking from personal experience I have noticed that some of my closest friends carry this negative vibe most of the time. Saying this I must point out that this,by any means this does NOT make them a bad friend or a bad person. Its their look on life’s situations and their reaction which makes them become a negative person. Spend the first couple of hours of your new day with a negative vibe around you and your mind will adapt to it subconsciously. If this happens you will find yourself not dealing with daily situations as easy as it may seem.

One of my closest friends,when i look at her it’s like looking at a rainbow or the sun (Cheesy i know). She is just full of positivity you can tell a mile away. Spending the day with her will lift you’re spirits up,it will give you an energy that you won’t realise where it came from.  I deeply believe in vibes,auras and energies,it’s what breaks as down as individuals. Looking at the good side of things will help you as a person and then it will have a positive effect on your life. Also some things that may help at being at peace with yourself are by treating others how you wish to be treated yourself,let go of trying to control people and situations and most importantly try to look at the positive side of things.

So a little task for you all is – When you find yourself in company with a negative vibe try to make it positive. It’s easy,maybe you and your friend are discussing a topic that every conclusion to that topic ends in a negative frame of mind. Try and think and turn it around. Mix more with positive thoughts and the energy will follow.

 

Have a good day 🙂

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Lessons Or Mistakes

Did I make a mistake ? – Will I learn from it ? – Was there a reason for that to happen how it did ?.

I bet that you have asked yourself those questions at some point, especially when you’re going through a bad patch. Answers are, Yes you made a mistake and yes, you will learn from it. If you go back to one of my earlier posts I do strongly believe in that “Everything Happens For A  Reason”.  Life truly is like school the only way you learn is by doing it wrong but instead of having a teacher correct your mistakes you,yourself will have to be your life’s own teacher. You will only receive guidance when you’re growing up and from that ,later on in life you will be able to teach yourself when you make an error in life. We are all brought up differently but I hope that we can all tell the difference between what’s right and wrong.

I made a mistake in life around 2 years ago and I was hoping that no one would find out. Stupid of me thinking that as I live in a small place. Don’t worry I didn’t do anything illegal haha. It’s a mistake that I was worried that would make others see me differently. We all know small towns means a lot of gossip and everyone knowing everyone it was bound to get out. I admit to being scared of what the outcome is.  What if more people find out ? but all I can do is wait and let nature takes its course I suppose. I believe that everything is happening how it is for a reason. I have big nerves in my stomach when I think about it and I go through these mood swings but I’ll let you know in a little secret – I’m Human. So I will embrace future mistakes,learn from it and hope for the best! as for now I hope this goes by so I can live comfortably again.

Hope you have a good one 🙂

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PJ’s Dream :) Share yours to!

Hey bloggers 🙂 – So we all have a dream…No! we actually have more than one type of dream. A dream that you can achieve and a dream which the chances of happening are around 0.00000000000000000000000000000001% (If that even is an accurate percentage but hey,lets pretend it is :)). So I will tell you my unrealistic dream and I’m sure all of you will have thought something similar to this.

So my unrealistic dream is to win the big Euromillions jackpot (£££££). Yes all those millions and I have plans for them to!. Well maybe not a plan to spend ALL of the money. Firstly i would give some to my mum,who by far is the person whom i look up to the most. Then i would give to my 2 older sisters and lastly i would open a savings account for my adorable nieces. Okay boring part over. So, my plan is obviously quit my day-to-day job. Will probably travel A LOT more go partying here and there becasue at the end of the day YOLO (You Only Live Once). After a year im guessing ill be ready to settle down. Now i always say that actors/actress have perfect bodies because they don’t have a 5 or 6 day week jobs, so their time is devoted at the gym. I would do the same i will go more to the gym than what i do now (which to be honest i hardly go haha). Apart from that i would like to do some volunteer work with R.I.C.C ( Research Into Childhood Cancer) . It’s a trust which I feel strongly about  so I will also devote my time to them. Last by not least ,as most people would, i would buy a nice big house with a pool,jacuzzi and maybe built-in gym! ? haha… Oh! Don’t worry my blogging wouldn’t end actually…I would blog even more!.

However that is a fantasy which I think having a fantasy is healthy for the soul. Gives you something to hope for i suppose.

Realistically speaking now,i would like to study Psychology and become a child psychologist OR go into nursing. I don’t know what it is and this may sound weird to some of you but there’s something inside of me that tells me i was put on this earth to do something greater. I think i can achieve that by helping others,There are others out there that need more help than I do and by reaching out and doing that I feel I would have actually done something worthy with my life.

It is important to know that you ,yourself can achieve anything you want in life and don’t let others tell you otherwise. If you are determined and work hard enough for it you WILL achieve your dream 🙂 I know it is very cliché of me to say that but I honestly do believe in it.

Well that is all 🙂 Hope you liked my Dreams 😀 Share yours to 🙂 Feel free to share my blog 🙂 Have a nice day x

The Easy Way Out!

Hey Blog  Buddies!. To give up is one of the easiest way out aye? . After having yet another break from blogging here i keep thinking should i just give up ? Cancel my blog! Delete all my thoughts and work i’ve put in it! I Know the blogging world has a very big competition out there, but i have felt only the minority of people read my blog. My blog is set to help people to find inspiration on everyday thoughts and life itself. It’s set on things i encounter and my own personal thoughts putting it out there to share for the world hoping it will help one of my readers. Only I have felt that it has failed to do so. So judging on the response i get from this blog.  This could be my very last blog ever, as i have lost all hope.

Let me just wish you all the best for 2011! and for those who have kept up to date with my blog. Thank you ever so much ! Please comment 🙂 Ly’allXxx

Bad Times

Hey blog buddies, todays blog isn’t as happy as it could be. Life is hard and full of times where we just want to give up and feel like nothing is worth it ?, Wrong,family ,friends,been thankful we have a house and food,! When one thing goes bad it seems that everything else goes bad too. Why do we think like that? . Why is it we think negative before postive?. Is it because it is easier and we are afriad of failure?
Through this bad time i am facing i will be trying to look on the bright side of things, i hope if you are going through a bad time you too can look on the bright side!

have a great day, love you all x

Starting A New Week! Morning Thoughts!

Good Morning Bloggers :), Thank you for taking the time to read my blog. I Woke up earlier than usual for work today thinking, Great Week-end is over back to the normal routine!. I bet most of us think this especially on a Monday morning. Why Should We? Surely if thats our first thoughts of the day our day may not be as good as we could make it!. Im taking a stand today!, I’m going to think positive. I’m going to handle everything that today throws at me in a calm manner, trying to think positive to everything that happens throughout the day. Been thankful that i have a job, i receive a salary that enables me to pay for food,clothes,a roof over my head and alot more. I Am willing to work for this! Think Positive in the morning look at the bright side of things! Love Every moment of your day. So i hope you all have a brilliant day 🙂 I’m thinking i will have a great day. So i hope you do too 🙂

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