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Negative Friends & People

Hey bloggers, its been quite sometime since I’ve blogged. Its good to take a couple of weeks off so you can go through new experiences that will make your blog just that tiny bit better. Hope you have ALL been well, remember if you need some advice or simply someone to talk to go to my “Contact” page and just send me a little e-mail.

Today’s blog  post is about our everyday surroundings. Especially the whole Monday – Friday routine, don’t know about most of you but yes,sadly I have a routine during the week. Everyday starts with WORK. Now I am lucky that I work with two of my closest friends so it does make work more fun at times but at times it’s also a curse in disguise. Spending so much time with someone can put a strain on any relationship. Now,our thoughts,actions and general outcome of the day all depends on our spiritual energy. By this I mean how we feel. Sure we all have  bad days,its normal we are human!. Can we prevent some of these days? Simple answer is YES . Speaking from personal experience I have noticed that some of my closest friends carry this negative vibe most of the time. Saying this I must point out that this,by any means this does NOT make them a bad friend or a bad person. Its their look on life’s situations and their reaction which makes them become a negative person. Spend the first couple of hours of your new day with a negative vibe around you and your mind will adapt to it subconsciously. If this happens you will find yourself not dealing with daily situations as easy as it may seem.

One of my closest friends,when i look at her it’s like looking at a rainbow or the sun (Cheesy i know). She is just full of positivity you can tell a mile away. Spending the day with her will lift you’re spirits up,it will give you an energy that you won’t realise where it came from.  I deeply believe in vibes,auras and energies,it’s what breaks as down as individuals. Looking at the good side of things will help you as a person and then it will have a positive effect on your life. Also some things that may help at being at peace with yourself are by treating others how you wish to be treated yourself,let go of trying to control people and situations and most importantly try to look at the positive side of things.

So a little task for you all is – When you find yourself in company with a negative vibe try to make it positive. It’s easy,maybe you and your friend are discussing a topic that every conclusion to that topic ends in a negative frame of mind. Try and think and turn it around. Mix more with positive thoughts and the energy will follow.

 

Have a good day 🙂

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Lessons Or Mistakes

Did I make a mistake ? – Will I learn from it ? – Was there a reason for that to happen how it did ?.

I bet that you have asked yourself those questions at some point, especially when you’re going through a bad patch. Answers are, Yes you made a mistake and yes, you will learn from it. If you go back to one of my earlier posts I do strongly believe in that “Everything Happens For A  Reason”.  Life truly is like school the only way you learn is by doing it wrong but instead of having a teacher correct your mistakes you,yourself will have to be your life’s own teacher. You will only receive guidance when you’re growing up and from that ,later on in life you will be able to teach yourself when you make an error in life. We are all brought up differently but I hope that we can all tell the difference between what’s right and wrong.

I made a mistake in life around 2 years ago and I was hoping that no one would find out. Stupid of me thinking that as I live in a small place. Don’t worry I didn’t do anything illegal haha. It’s a mistake that I was worried that would make others see me differently. We all know small towns means a lot of gossip and everyone knowing everyone it was bound to get out. I admit to being scared of what the outcome is.  What if more people find out ? but all I can do is wait and let nature takes its course I suppose. I believe that everything is happening how it is for a reason. I have big nerves in my stomach when I think about it and I go through these mood swings but I’ll let you know in a little secret – I’m Human. So I will embrace future mistakes,learn from it and hope for the best! as for now I hope this goes by so I can live comfortably again.

Hope you have a good one 🙂

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Music Brings Shivers To The Body As It Sends The Message To The Heart

Hey Bloggers 🙂  – How is everyone’s weekend going ? good i hope. I have had a rather unproductive Saturday really haha having one of those laying about doing nothing all day days. Anyways todays post is about – one of my favourite topics MUSIC 🙂 . Theres an old blog post i did quite some time ago that mentions one of my favourite quotes off all time “Reading Is To The Mind As Music Is to The Soul” . Music is such a powerful thing, it can change your mood or it can express your current mood even further whether it make you feel happier ,sadder, more exited etc. I listen to nearly all genres of music really but the one thing i LOVE about some songs are the shivers. The moment where your arm hairs all stand up and you get that cool shiver – That is the moment where that piece of music/lyric has touched you. If your going through a bad time or happy time and you just hear that single verse and you get those shivers running down your spine for me is amazing.

Ed Sheeran is one of the few artists that sound better live than on a recorded and edited CD ( In my opinion). He has that soft voice that makes the room go quite. You feel every word he sings and he projects the meaning and feeling of the song in such a way. I’ve attached one of his songs down below which i love. He also has another song called “Small Bump” which he also wrote. This song speaks about hes girlfriend who’s suffered a miscarriage and the lyrics are just immense. Anyways don’t let me ramble on about Ed Sheeran, I just thought I should share one of hes songs.

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Enjoy the rest of your Saturday :).

“Reading Is To The Mind As Music Is To The Soul”

Hey Bloggers, With all the blogs i write i never get to mention the one thing. The one thing that insipries most people. That is MUSIC!!! I Love music. It describes so many emotions and helps you in everyday life :). I studied music at gcse level. And that even grew my love for it even more:)

Reading is to the mind,as music is to the soul  one of my favourtie qoutes ever in life. Music helps your soul in so many ways.

Recently i came across this song and it describes soo much it can be intrepided in two ways.. The lost of a loved one or relationship problems. Althou when you see Hannah montana ( Miley Cyrus) you might think ” rubbish” but give it a try. (Important click on the link below)

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>>>>>Wherever I Go -Hannah Montana Ft Emily Osman <<<<<( CLICK ON THE LINK)

Letting the anger out!

Hey all you bloggers. Its nearly 12am and i am FURIOUS!. One of the hardest things i think is watching your friends do a huge mistake and you not been able to say or do anything about it . Should i risk the friendship? should i say whats on my mind knowing it will create an argument and may damage the friendship. Should i just keep quiet ? let her be hurt ?. My friend is seeing someone who is lets just say a bad influence and nothing good can come of this. Shes blinded by words. Words are easily said but not often meant.

As i’m sure most of you readers have been through this at one point of your life. What to do stand back ? or open up, free your emotions and risk it all ?. After all life is one big risk, with no risk theres no prize. We sometimes need to risk everything to achieve what we want. Even if the outcome is not what we hoped it may be. Don’t they say keeping it in is bad for your health? but don’t they also say put others first ?. So many questions and obsticles life throws at us. How do we know we are doing the right thing?. Is there a thing as the “Right Choice”. All Choices are right, thats my thought. Wether the outcome is bad,its a mistake you learn from this mistake.

Sorry for rambling on but i guess im conffuzed about this and lost hopefully time will tell and i will know what to do.

Goodnight hope you enjoyed it  & have a great day tomorrow. x

Time!

Hey Bloggers i hope you liked my morning message,

today’s post is going to be about time. How we all want time to go by  quickly. When most of us are at work we wish it was time to go, when we are at a party we don’t want to be we wish it was later so we can leave and if we had a big event in the next few days we would wish that time will go by quicker. But then we think back and we think and say ” omg! how time has passed these days it seems like yesterday”…. and ” the week has passed by so quick” . So maybe we contradict ourselves but its a way of life.

So Today don’t try and rush through things just enjoy the time you have,enjoy what you are doing and take all of it in because you know it you will be saying ” i wish it was that day again!”

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Life is to short!

Life is to short to fight and regret things, when you lose someone is when you will notice how precious life is. So my message for the day is live this day as if it is your last,love life and be with the ones you love. Enjoy your day.

 

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A Way To Release Stress!

Hey Bloggers, In this blog i am going to ask you to comment about your day,a way to blow some steam off. How many off you after work,school or uni go home and are in a bad mood because of the day you had and you take the blame out on your family or friends?

Well today its the last of it , just below just comment and say what has happened to you today,

i had a normal day really it started out badly as i saw my blog’s stats and unfortunately it was great 😦 then at work i was BORED i felt like i needed something new and exiting to walk into my life,i am sure all of you have felt that way before, if so also leave it in a comment:)

 

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