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Are We ALL Becoming Attention Seekers ? – My Thoughts !

Hey bloggers, I know it’s been a while and I have had this topic at the back of my mind for a couple of weeks now. 10 Years ago I suppose society was VERY different as to what it is today. Attention seekers worked harder to get their attention and noticed and fewer people wanted to be noticed. Do we realise that we are becoming attention seekers? I mean 10 years ago how would you grab someone’s attention without posting anything on any social network sites.

 

Are you an attention seeker? – I think we all are in one way or another. How many of you have Facebook or Twitter? Most if not all I’m sure and some of you will probably use other social networking sites like Tumbler etc. These social networking sites are designed in a way that makes us want to get noticed. On Facebook for example we “update our status” with the intentions for others to read it and later “Like” or Comment. Every day we post (Myself including) the little things everyone does in everyday life, things like the food we eat or what we drink on Facebook just so people will see and know what you’re doing. On Twitter I find people are more open (Myself Included) and people tend to share deeper thoughts even those that when posted on facebook may get a negative feedback.

 

Do we paint this pretty picture on Facebook? – I think most of us paint this mirage of ourselves on Facebook. We all want to be accepted by the majority of society so we post what we think will be “Liked” and accepted by others and with the hope that we will be, in return liked more by others and become that slightly more popular. I think we all post just what we want others to see obviously that is why we control it right? But don’t we all have darker thoughts? Not so nice thoughts that should be shared. After all Facebook does ask “What’s On Your Mind”, On many occasions I have posted an update saying “ Facebook keeps on asking me “What’s on my mind” but I’m scared if I post I will shock a lot of people!” Which I’m sure I will. At the end of the day we all seek acceptance by others and I think Social Networking sites like the ones I mentioned earlier play a bit part in it all. Maybe we don’t all realise it but I think it is getting worse. I am too a victim of this but a couple of weeks ago I was having a discussion with a friend who they claim they “don’t care what others think” So I pointed this out, we all use the edit features for the pictures, we all act as if we have this perfect life on facebook but behind that screen many of us have more insecurities than what we may know we have! Problem is, if we paint this picture too big how can we live up to it?

Hope I haven’t rumbles too much on this, Let me know your thoughts no matter how good or bad:) if you like please Like, Share & Comment!

 

Have a nice day 🙂

“Reading Is To The Mind As Music Is To The Soul”

Hey Bloggers, With all the blogs i write i never get to mention the one thing. The one thing that insipries most people. That is MUSIC!!! I Love music. It describes so many emotions and helps you in everyday life :). I studied music at gcse level. And that even grew my love for it even more:)

Reading is to the mind,as music is to the soul  one of my favourtie qoutes ever in life. Music helps your soul in so many ways.

Recently i came across this song and it describes soo much it can be intrepided in two ways.. The lost of a loved one or relationship problems. Althou when you see Hannah montana ( Miley Cyrus) you might think ” rubbish” but give it a try. (Important click on the link below)

Good night Bloggersx

>>>>>Wherever I Go -Hannah Montana Ft Emily Osman <<<<<( CLICK ON THE LINK)

Life is to short!

Life is to short to fight and regret things, when you lose someone is when you will notice how precious life is. So my message for the day is live this day as if it is your last,love life and be with the ones you love. Enjoy your day.

 

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A Way To Release Stress!

Hey Bloggers, In this blog i am going to ask you to comment about your day,a way to blow some steam off. How many off you after work,school or uni go home and are in a bad mood because of the day you had and you take the blame out on your family or friends?

Well today its the last of it , just below just comment and say what has happened to you today,

i had a normal day really it started out badly as i saw my blog’s stats and unfortunately it was great 😦 then at work i was BORED i felt like i needed something new and exiting to walk into my life,i am sure all of you have felt that way before, if so also leave it in a comment:)

 

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A secret to look sexier!

hey all, I’m sure most of you spend loads of time in front of mirror before going out and you might not like your outer-beauty, and they also sell loads of facial products which might help I’ll also explain about that later on but for now the one key ingredient the important thing is confidence…. I’m sure all of you are going “I’ve heard this on t.v a million times and people kept saying this!well i  also thought that till recently

i couple of months ago  i saw my reflection in the mirror and  i did not like what i see and it lowered my self-esteem and confidence but after reading the book The Seven Spiritual Laws of Success: A Practical Guide to the Fulfillment of Your Dreams (Hardcover)

and in that book it taught me things,ways that can change the ways you see some things and i gained confidence and i gradually saw myself  look better. If you think about it don’t you see your self looking better one day rather than the other. Well its not that your looks change daily because that is impossible its the amount of confidence you have.

so that is one thing i also read Davey’s blog and he said something interesting, he said that if facial products were to work properly they will not make much money because you would buy more after your first bottle has finished, I’m not saying they don’t do anything I’m sure they do but just try the good old fashioned soap, do it daily scrub it well and i am sure that you will have the same or similar effect :):)

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