Morning bloggers!!… Happy Valentine’s day!! Wonderful day ….for those in love that is. A day where everyone in a relationship is basically forced to show their love buy buying presents and cards. Why wait for a specific day to show your love for someone reminds me of Mothers day. I love my mum everyday why should I wait for a specific day to show it so a couple of years ago I gave her presents and a video that I made weeks before Mothers Day! Don’t wait to show your love ;)…
So let me put a positive spin for us single people on this lovely day… Single on Valentines? NO PROBLEM it’s actually better for us. We save money on buying presents but not only that we can buy ourselves a present!. Perfect excuse to spend some money on whatever we want but we usually don’t want to get… Although I must say try and avoid social networks, especially Facebook! – I’m more of a twitter person myself but it will be Love everywhere. So enjoy this day you single people 😉
Hey Bloggers, so for those of you that have read my previous post you will know that i went out last night with friends. We were joking around etc but then as a “joke” they said somethings that i did not take as a joke. I know the classic response to this would be “Its just a joke, don’t be like that” etc etc but they were personal things and as close friends i think they should know better right? At least I thought they did.
I always try,when making jokes not to make them personal or about things we have shared about in a private conversation. Makes me think when im not around, do they speak about me ? . I know they speak to me about others and confide in me not to say a word. Yet again If they speak to me about others whats stopping them from doing the same with others about me ?. I guess it all takes trust? and trust is a thing that is easily broken and never repaired no matter how much you try. EVERYONE is vulnerable no matter how much they try to precieve they are not. but they calls for another post another day don’t want to ramble on too much! . For now i will enjoy my evening,will be going out for dinner with some friends 🙂
– Remember When Making Jokes Don’t Make Them To Personal,Or Try To View Your Friends Reaction To See If They’ve Taken It The Wrong Way-
have a good night! xx
Hey Bloggers, just a quick blog update. So If you read yesterdays blog post it speaks about how you should voice your opinion no matter what, you view is as good as anyone else’s.
Well last night i went out with some of my closest friends and we were speaking,joking around etc the usual,however as “jokes” some of them did say some comments in which i didn’t find that funny to be honest (Might blog about this later on today). After this i wasn’t in a very good mood so i was just basically giving my honest opinion in every situation and i was told that i seemed “Unhappy and Grumpy” – To be honest i felt like saying “No – I’m just speaking the truth and how i feel why cover it up”. I didn’t to avoid conflict to be honest but i suppose then the phrase “Honesty Is The Best Policy” is not entirely true and sometimes your opinions should be kept to yourself in order to avoid any conflicts or hurting any-ones feelings.
Have a nice day, watch out for a post later on :).