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Don’t Regret It, Don’t Question It – Accept & Learn.

Happy Monday bloggers! Can you call Monday happy? lol unless it’s a bank holiday!. Hope you all had a nice weekend!.

I sometimes feel like an advice guru with my friends.  Not saying that I’m the best at giving advice but I seem to be the one to go to these days and I don’t mind that at all. If I can help a friend in need then that’s why I’m here. After all friends are here to help take some stress off one another,a shoulder to cry on and most importantly fun to be around. Anyway I do learn a lot listening to different problems and the different situations. Some people do get themselves in quite the situation and sometimes I feel as they couldn’t have made a bigger mistake however I never judge their actions but I do try to calm them down and tell them that in the future all this happened to contribute to a bigger picture. This is what I wanted to blog about today, I just want everyone to know that it is Okay to make a mistake and to repeat that mistake a couple of times if its needed  but don’t stay stuck with the “What If’s”, Just move on and depend on your friends to help you move forward. If there’s something I believe in its this. Every bad choice you make in life,every wrong turn you make,every fight and every friendship , there is for a reason for it. How would we know how to differentiate between a good and bad friend if we had not trusted someone whom we shouldn’t have ? How would we not know NOT to do that same action again if we hadn’t done it before?. Especially with friendships,I am sure that most of you think “I wish I had never met him/her”. Stop there, think at one point you must have had fun ? and most importantly did that friendship introduce you to better friends today?. Ask yourself questions TODAY,not questions on what happened yesterday but what and who is in your life today and who you think will be in your life tomorrow.

It’s all in the posts title “Don’t Regret It,Don’t Question It but Accept & Learn from it”. Don’t fight fate,embrace it and by that you will let happiness enter your life and soon you will realise that the bad choices or mistakes that had once took over your mind was nothing but a small glitch along the way to your happiness today. 🙂

Thank you for reading bloggers 🙂 Feel free to Like,Comment or Share 😀 x

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PJ’s Dream :) Share yours to!

Hey bloggers 🙂 – So we all have a dream…No! we actually have more than one type of dream. A dream that you can achieve and a dream which the chances of happening are around 0.00000000000000000000000000000001% (If that even is an accurate percentage but hey,lets pretend it is :)). So I will tell you my unrealistic dream and I’m sure all of you will have thought something similar to this.

So my unrealistic dream is to win the big Euromillions jackpot (£££££). Yes all those millions and I have plans for them to!. Well maybe not a plan to spend ALL of the money. Firstly i would give some to my mum,who by far is the person whom i look up to the most. Then i would give to my 2 older sisters and lastly i would open a savings account for my adorable nieces. Okay boring part over. So, my plan is obviously quit my day-to-day job. Will probably travel A LOT more go partying here and there becasue at the end of the day YOLO (You Only Live Once). After a year im guessing ill be ready to settle down. Now i always say that actors/actress have perfect bodies because they don’t have a 5 or 6 day week jobs, so their time is devoted at the gym. I would do the same i will go more to the gym than what i do now (which to be honest i hardly go haha). Apart from that i would like to do some volunteer work with R.I.C.C ( Research Into Childhood Cancer) . It’s a trust which I feel strongly about  so I will also devote my time to them. Last by not least ,as most people would, i would buy a nice big house with a pool,jacuzzi and maybe built-in gym! ? haha… Oh! Don’t worry my blogging wouldn’t end actually…I would blog even more!.

However that is a fantasy which I think having a fantasy is healthy for the soul. Gives you something to hope for i suppose.

Realistically speaking now,i would like to study Psychology and become a child psychologist OR go into nursing. I don’t know what it is and this may sound weird to some of you but there’s something inside of me that tells me i was put on this earth to do something greater. I think i can achieve that by helping others,There are others out there that need more help than I do and by reaching out and doing that I feel I would have actually done something worthy with my life.

It is important to know that you ,yourself can achieve anything you want in life and don’t let others tell you otherwise. If you are determined and work hard enough for it you WILL achieve your dream 🙂 I know it is very cliché of me to say that but I honestly do believe in it.

Well that is all 🙂 Hope you liked my Dreams 😀 Share yours to 🙂 Feel free to share my blog 🙂 Have a nice day x

Mothers Day

Hey bloggers!

Today is MOTHERS DAY 😀 (In the Uk,Ireland & Gibraltar ..Europe lol)! Where would we all be without our mothers – They brought us up, came to us when we had nightmares,provided us with shelter and food and they make us their main priority.

To all you mothers reading this blog – You do an outstanding job everyday! Even if you’re a house mum and don’t work, in reality you do work. You work 7 days a week with no 15 min breaks and no lunch hour and 24 hours a day when you are needed you are there!. So I hope today you rest and just realise how your children appreciate the things you do – day in and day out 🙂

Use your day to the fullest ! Conquer a F.E.A.R

Hey bloggers!,

Today i have conquered a fear! What a day it has been! The nerves, fear,Dry mouth and dry throat. I have never been a confident driver so I never go driving into Spain, I always make one of my friends drive instead but today my friend said “it’s about time you were strong and do this” . At first i was just thinking “Omg I can’t, NO way! we will crash!”. Obviously its one of those “mind over matter” type of things. I had butterflies in my stomach ( Actually that is an understatement, they felt more like dragons haha ) but through her guidance and help we got to our destination in one piece and i thought to myself (not admitting it of course) “this isn’t as bad as I thought it would be” .

I think with the combination of our fear and imagination our mind ,being as powerful as it is, creates these scenarios that really would not happen in a million years! .. So, What i am trying to get at is.. When you have a free day to yourself use it wisely. Do something that your mind holds you back from doing! Something you would like to do but you fear from it! Conquer your fear and later i will promise you, you will feel like you’re on top of the world! (oh and don’t take this the wrong way, don’t do drugs and stuff that will damage your health haha )

Have a nice day 😀 I did and i feel great!

The Past For A Reason

Hey bloggers :), I am so happy from the response i received yesterday from what could have been my last blog. You know i woke up feeling, ratings aren’t important. As long as i inspire and help 1 individual that is enough for me.

Anyways on to todays blog :).

Past,Present,Future.  Three Tenses, Three Meanings. So many of us ,including me, get so caught up in the past and it is so hard to let go of the past it will not allow us to live our life to the fullest in the present. Sometimes we destroy our lives trying to live in the past. Something that can’t work anymore. My message today is Let The Past Be!. Why hold on to something that is no longer there? If it’s in the past it has served it’s purpose in your life. Done what its done and left so you can make the most of your life. Every person that comes into your life is for a lesson, a message and once that is done they leave become a part of your past. We must learn to not forget the past as it makes us who we are today but to learn from the past to make our present days better and hope for a better future. So we can learn to become better people by learning from past mistakes,past messages 🙂

Hope you have a lovely day 🙂 Please subscribe ,comment and rate 🙂 x

The Easy Way Out!

Hey Blog  Buddies!. To give up is one of the easiest way out aye? . After having yet another break from blogging here i keep thinking should i just give up ? Cancel my blog! Delete all my thoughts and work i’ve put in it! I Know the blogging world has a very big competition out there, but i have felt only the minority of people read my blog. My blog is set to help people to find inspiration on everyday thoughts and life itself. It’s set on things i encounter and my own personal thoughts putting it out there to share for the world hoping it will help one of my readers. Only I have felt that it has failed to do so. So judging on the response i get from this blog.  This could be my very last blog ever, as i have lost all hope.

Let me just wish you all the best for 2011! and for those who have kept up to date with my blog. Thank you ever so much ! Please comment 🙂 Ly’allXxx

Wanting The Unobtainable

Hey Bloggers :)! , Today’s blog is overused and probably everyone has heard about it but i have experienced this for the last couple of days.

We All Want What We Can’t Have. There you have it, the truth and we all suffer from that. It EATS us up inside seeing this thing,hearing about this person and not been able to have it. So Close but yet so far away. So true, for months i have wanted this person and i mean more than a friend kind of way;)!. The way they look,smell,talk,smile. Kills me not been able to have this person by my side!. I just want to jump out and say it ! risk it all! After all life is one big risk but we think before we act, even those who say I don’t think before i act…. You do,subconsciously we all do.

I think we need to stop for a second…just a second and think…. Why do i want this ? i have lived all this time without this object or person,whatever it is we desire. I have had fun ,haven’t i not ?…So Why must we beat ourselves up, be miserable for the day,stress out and be depressed because we can’t get what we want. Did you know it takes as much energy to be happy than to be sad..So which would you rather be ?, I’m voting to be happy, life is too short to be sad :)!, Everything will fall into place,even if at the end of the day we do not get what we once wanted, there’s a reason for that maybe a bigger purpose why it did not end that way. Remember it happened like it did for a reason 🙂

Have a great day and remember think Pink, Tomorrow is Pink Day, remembering all those who have passed away,together we WILL beat cancer :)x

Pink Day 2010

Tomorrow is known as Pink Day, Breast Cancer Awareness Day.! I will be changing my blog’s colour to PINK! 🙂 i will attach a link so take a look 🙂

R.I.P to everyone who has passed away! Together We Can Beat Cancer!

http://www.wearitpink.co.uk/

Fortune!

Hey Bloggers. I saw myself fighting with myself today,thinking if i should post this blog or not!.

Today i went to a Tariot reader/fortune teller, it was my first time. Most people speculate that its a bunch of lies. So i wanted to judge by myself. Result is, i am shocked. I was left speechless. As some of you may know, no one i know knows i write this blog. I have told no one about this. The Reader today told me as i sat down ” O my you are good with litrature,and don’t give it up”. First thing that came into my head was this blog and other things i also write. She also suprised me saying i give alot of advice to others, my friend agreed with her when i told my friend what she had said.

So instead of hearing what others say, go for it, it’s a new experience! 🙂

Starting A New Week! Morning Thoughts!

Good Morning Bloggers :), Thank you for taking the time to read my blog. I Woke up earlier than usual for work today thinking, Great Week-end is over back to the normal routine!. I bet most of us think this especially on a Monday morning. Why Should We? Surely if thats our first thoughts of the day our day may not be as good as we could make it!. Im taking a stand today!, I’m going to think positive. I’m going to handle everything that today throws at me in a calm manner, trying to think positive to everything that happens throughout the day. Been thankful that i have a job, i receive a salary that enables me to pay for food,clothes,a roof over my head and alot more. I Am willing to work for this! Think Positive in the morning look at the bright side of things! Love Every moment of your day. So i hope you all have a brilliant day 🙂 I’m thinking i will have a great day. So i hope you do too 🙂

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