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Are We ALL Becoming Attention Seekers ? – My Thoughts !

Hey bloggers, I know it’s been a while and I have had this topic at the back of my mind for a couple of weeks now. 10 Years ago I suppose society was VERY different as to what it is today. Attention seekers worked harder to get their attention and noticed and fewer people wanted to be noticed. Do we realise that we are becoming attention seekers? I mean 10 years ago how would you grab someone’s attention without posting anything on any social network sites.

 

Are you an attention seeker? – I think we all are in one way or another. How many of you have Facebook or Twitter? Most if not all I’m sure and some of you will probably use other social networking sites like Tumbler etc. These social networking sites are designed in a way that makes us want to get noticed. On Facebook for example we “update our status” with the intentions for others to read it and later “Like” or Comment. Every day we post (Myself including) the little things everyone does in everyday life, things like the food we eat or what we drink on Facebook just so people will see and know what you’re doing. On Twitter I find people are more open (Myself Included) and people tend to share deeper thoughts even those that when posted on facebook may get a negative feedback.

 

Do we paint this pretty picture on Facebook? – I think most of us paint this mirage of ourselves on Facebook. We all want to be accepted by the majority of society so we post what we think will be “Liked” and accepted by others and with the hope that we will be, in return liked more by others and become that slightly more popular. I think we all post just what we want others to see obviously that is why we control it right? But don’t we all have darker thoughts? Not so nice thoughts that should be shared. After all Facebook does ask “What’s On Your Mind”, On many occasions I have posted an update saying “ Facebook keeps on asking me “What’s on my mind” but I’m scared if I post I will shock a lot of people!” Which I’m sure I will. At the end of the day we all seek acceptance by others and I think Social Networking sites like the ones I mentioned earlier play a bit part in it all. Maybe we don’t all realise it but I think it is getting worse. I am too a victim of this but a couple of weeks ago I was having a discussion with a friend who they claim they “don’t care what others think” So I pointed this out, we all use the edit features for the pictures, we all act as if we have this perfect life on facebook but behind that screen many of us have more insecurities than what we may know we have! Problem is, if we paint this picture too big how can we live up to it?

Hope I haven’t rumbles too much on this, Let me know your thoughts no matter how good or bad:) if you like please Like, Share & Comment!

 

Have a nice day 🙂

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Don’t Regret It, Don’t Question It – Accept & Learn.

Happy Monday bloggers! Can you call Monday happy? lol unless it’s a bank holiday!. Hope you all had a nice weekend!.

I sometimes feel like an advice guru with my friends.  Not saying that I’m the best at giving advice but I seem to be the one to go to these days and I don’t mind that at all. If I can help a friend in need then that’s why I’m here. After all friends are here to help take some stress off one another,a shoulder to cry on and most importantly fun to be around. Anyway I do learn a lot listening to different problems and the different situations. Some people do get themselves in quite the situation and sometimes I feel as they couldn’t have made a bigger mistake however I never judge their actions but I do try to calm them down and tell them that in the future all this happened to contribute to a bigger picture. This is what I wanted to blog about today, I just want everyone to know that it is Okay to make a mistake and to repeat that mistake a couple of times if its needed  but don’t stay stuck with the “What If’s”, Just move on and depend on your friends to help you move forward. If there’s something I believe in its this. Every bad choice you make in life,every wrong turn you make,every fight and every friendship , there is for a reason for it. How would we know how to differentiate between a good and bad friend if we had not trusted someone whom we shouldn’t have ? How would we not know NOT to do that same action again if we hadn’t done it before?. Especially with friendships,I am sure that most of you think “I wish I had never met him/her”. Stop there, think at one point you must have had fun ? and most importantly did that friendship introduce you to better friends today?. Ask yourself questions TODAY,not questions on what happened yesterday but what and who is in your life today and who you think will be in your life tomorrow.

It’s all in the posts title “Don’t Regret It,Don’t Question It but Accept & Learn from it”. Don’t fight fate,embrace it and by that you will let happiness enter your life and soon you will realise that the bad choices or mistakes that had once took over your mind was nothing but a small glitch along the way to your happiness today. 🙂

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Lessons Or Mistakes

Did I make a mistake ? – Will I learn from it ? – Was there a reason for that to happen how it did ?.

I bet that you have asked yourself those questions at some point, especially when you’re going through a bad patch. Answers are, Yes you made a mistake and yes, you will learn from it. If you go back to one of my earlier posts I do strongly believe in that “Everything Happens For A  Reason”.  Life truly is like school the only way you learn is by doing it wrong but instead of having a teacher correct your mistakes you,yourself will have to be your life’s own teacher. You will only receive guidance when you’re growing up and from that ,later on in life you will be able to teach yourself when you make an error in life. We are all brought up differently but I hope that we can all tell the difference between what’s right and wrong.

I made a mistake in life around 2 years ago and I was hoping that no one would find out. Stupid of me thinking that as I live in a small place. Don’t worry I didn’t do anything illegal haha. It’s a mistake that I was worried that would make others see me differently. We all know small towns means a lot of gossip and everyone knowing everyone it was bound to get out. I admit to being scared of what the outcome is.  What if more people find out ? but all I can do is wait and let nature takes its course I suppose. I believe that everything is happening how it is for a reason. I have big nerves in my stomach when I think about it and I go through these mood swings but I’ll let you know in a little secret – I’m Human. So I will embrace future mistakes,learn from it and hope for the best! as for now I hope this goes by so I can live comfortably again.

Hope you have a good one 🙂

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A Years Break, Writers Block ?

Hey blog buddies ! Sorry I haven’t been blogging ! At all ! ..It’s been over a year since my last post! To be honest I stopped blogging because of the ratings ! I know i have blogged about this before so I’m not going to repeat myself 🙂

It has been a hell of a year, Hell being the operative word! I lost a very close family member to Cancer. First time I’ve ever lost anyone so close to my heart and it did hurt a great deal!. It’s a shame with all of this technology we have and we have yet to find any cure for Cancer! I hope we do! 🙂 ( Please donate to cancer research http://supportus.cancerresearchuk.org/donate/ ) Together we can beat this ! 🙂

On Another note i hope all of you have seen the video about Kony ! I will do my bit plus Post the video here to bring awareness to take this sick criminal down! PLEASE repost this video on your Facebook,Twitter and Blog sites 😀 Do your bit and help those in need! http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Y4MnpzG5Sqc

I hope you have had a good year ! And if you need to speak to anyone just drop a comment ▼▼▼

Anger!

Hey blog buddies!.
First of all thank you for yesterdays feedback!. Today however my post is going to be more on the dark side!

“Waking Up On the bad side”. I think that is what happened to me today. Any little thing is putting me in a right mood. At the moment i’m actually at work! But i can’t concentrate on work so i’m going to write this post to try and calm down!.
Anger is just a thought! Why get angry?, i mean we are human we go get mad! but thinking about it what good will it do ? . Will it change anything? Apart from our blood pressure that is!. I Guess good advice would be just take deep breaths, if you can play some nice slow music and stop for a while, relax! Or you could write a blog like me 🙂 Anyways hope you enjoy your day….I Might write something better tonight 🙂

“Reading Is To The Mind As Music Is To The Soul”

Hey Bloggers, With all the blogs i write i never get to mention the one thing. The one thing that insipries most people. That is MUSIC!!! I Love music. It describes so many emotions and helps you in everyday life :). I studied music at gcse level. And that even grew my love for it even more:)

Reading is to the mind,as music is to the soul  one of my favourtie qoutes ever in life. Music helps your soul in so many ways.

Recently i came across this song and it describes soo much it can be intrepided in two ways.. The lost of a loved one or relationship problems. Althou when you see Hannah montana ( Miley Cyrus) you might think ” rubbish” but give it a try. (Important click on the link below)

Good night Bloggersx

>>>>>Wherever I Go -Hannah Montana Ft Emily Osman <<<<<( CLICK ON THE LINK)

The Past For A Reason

Hey bloggers :), I am so happy from the response i received yesterday from what could have been my last blog. You know i woke up feeling, ratings aren’t important. As long as i inspire and help 1 individual that is enough for me.

Anyways on to todays blog :).

Past,Present,Future.  Three Tenses, Three Meanings. So many of us ,including me, get so caught up in the past and it is so hard to let go of the past it will not allow us to live our life to the fullest in the present. Sometimes we destroy our lives trying to live in the past. Something that can’t work anymore. My message today is Let The Past Be!. Why hold on to something that is no longer there? If it’s in the past it has served it’s purpose in your life. Done what its done and left so you can make the most of your life. Every person that comes into your life is for a lesson, a message and once that is done they leave become a part of your past. We must learn to not forget the past as it makes us who we are today but to learn from the past to make our present days better and hope for a better future. So we can learn to become better people by learning from past mistakes,past messages 🙂

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The Easy Way Out!

Hey Blog  Buddies!. To give up is one of the easiest way out aye? . After having yet another break from blogging here i keep thinking should i just give up ? Cancel my blog! Delete all my thoughts and work i’ve put in it! I Know the blogging world has a very big competition out there, but i have felt only the minority of people read my blog. My blog is set to help people to find inspiration on everyday thoughts and life itself. It’s set on things i encounter and my own personal thoughts putting it out there to share for the world hoping it will help one of my readers. Only I have felt that it has failed to do so. So judging on the response i get from this blog.  This could be my very last blog ever, as i have lost all hope.

Let me just wish you all the best for 2011! and for those who have kept up to date with my blog. Thank you ever so much ! Please comment 🙂 Ly’allXxx

Pink Day 2010

Tomorrow is known as Pink Day, Breast Cancer Awareness Day.! I will be changing my blog’s colour to PINK! 🙂 i will attach a link so take a look 🙂

R.I.P to everyone who has passed away! Together We Can Beat Cancer!

http://www.wearitpink.co.uk/

Everyday Choices

the everyday choice

Hey All You Bloggers, i was just about to turn of my new laptop when i thought of another blog that i have been wanting to write and that i often think about.

Everyone makes hundred’s of decisionsa day and no matter how small it may be it will have a big impact in your life and the experience that take in that day. For Example, Lets say in an everyday situation u have the choice of going out with your friends or staying in your house go on msn or just watch t.v for a bit. That may not seem as a big choice to make but it is.

The important thing to remember is not to regret the choice you made as when you made that choice at that moment it felt right and what ever happens you have gained a new experience. Looking on the positive side of things may help no matter how bad things  may seem at that moment. When You Start A New Day Every Day You Wake Up With Hundred’s Of Choices To Make Although Most Of Us Live A Predictable life. We Normally Go To Work which consumes most of our day and then after that is more or less the same as your previous day, so when you have a free day do something spontaneous like going on a long hike. Life is to short to do the same thing everyday..

Sorry for rambling on there  but i hope it made sense to you the point to this is life is to short and there are so many choices out there to make and when you make one and it does not turn out the way you planned don’t think ” Why Did I Choose To Do This Today”  think of it as a new experience gained!

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