Category Archives: inspirational

Now I’m A Warrior !

Hey bloggers 🙂 Apologies for not posting a blog in a Long time ! . Hope you’re all well 🙂

I recently bought a book ( Not an e-book but an actual book with pages !!) from Demi Lovato , anyone heard of her ? I’m sure you have. The book is called Staying Strong 365 days a year and basically it has famous quotes then Demi’s reflection on that quote for that day and she adds a little goal for you for the day. It truly is an inspirational book filled with some amazing quotes and goals !. I will add a link to her book here Demi Lovato – Staying Strong 365 Days A Year I think it gives you a page or 2 of the book for you to read :)!

Every night I always read the next days page right before going to bed and here is tomorrow’s page ( December 9th)

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The quote is from her song Warrior from her latest album Demi. It’s said to be a follow up song from her hit single Skyscraper and the lyrics in both songs are so inspirational!. Getting back to tomorrow’s page, She wrote the song to help so many people who are going through a bad time and just to remind them
That it does get better . Many of us ,everyday, walk down town or even read and see pictures on Facebook or Twitter and make fun of what we see … Not knowing how that person feels ,or what that person is going through. I always try and think twice before making a prejudgement of what I see and hear and consider what that other person must be going through, for example, if you see a picture of a guy/girl who may be over weight  most of us will make fun and insult right ? Well maybe that person has a medical reason as to why he/she cannot lose weight and gets picked on everyday for something she can’t change!. So what I ask from
You today is to think before you judge and consider the other persons feeling and situation.

Oh and check out Demi’s album because it is amazing !! If you need to contact me for whatever reason feel free so by sending me an e-mail via my contact page located on the tab above or just click HERE.

 

🙂 Goodnight bloggers x

Are We ALL Becoming Attention Seekers ? – My Thoughts !

Hey bloggers, I know it’s been a while and I have had this topic at the back of my mind for a couple of weeks now. 10 Years ago I suppose society was VERY different as to what it is today. Attention seekers worked harder to get their attention and noticed and fewer people wanted to be noticed. Do we realise that we are becoming attention seekers? I mean 10 years ago how would you grab someone’s attention without posting anything on any social network sites.

 

Are you an attention seeker? – I think we all are in one way or another. How many of you have Facebook or Twitter? Most if not all I’m sure and some of you will probably use other social networking sites like Tumbler etc. These social networking sites are designed in a way that makes us want to get noticed. On Facebook for example we “update our status” with the intentions for others to read it and later “Like” or Comment. Every day we post (Myself including) the little things everyone does in everyday life, things like the food we eat or what we drink on Facebook just so people will see and know what you’re doing. On Twitter I find people are more open (Myself Included) and people tend to share deeper thoughts even those that when posted on facebook may get a negative feedback.

 

Do we paint this pretty picture on Facebook? – I think most of us paint this mirage of ourselves on Facebook. We all want to be accepted by the majority of society so we post what we think will be “Liked” and accepted by others and with the hope that we will be, in return liked more by others and become that slightly more popular. I think we all post just what we want others to see obviously that is why we control it right? But don’t we all have darker thoughts? Not so nice thoughts that should be shared. After all Facebook does ask “What’s On Your Mind”, On many occasions I have posted an update saying “ Facebook keeps on asking me “What’s on my mind” but I’m scared if I post I will shock a lot of people!” Which I’m sure I will. At the end of the day we all seek acceptance by others and I think Social Networking sites like the ones I mentioned earlier play a bit part in it all. Maybe we don’t all realise it but I think it is getting worse. I am too a victim of this but a couple of weeks ago I was having a discussion with a friend who they claim they “don’t care what others think” So I pointed this out, we all use the edit features for the pictures, we all act as if we have this perfect life on facebook but behind that screen many of us have more insecurities than what we may know we have! Problem is, if we paint this picture too big how can we live up to it?

Hope I haven’t rumbles too much on this, Let me know your thoughts no matter how good or bad:) if you like please Like, Share & Comment!

 

Have a nice day 🙂

We survived but the fight is not over ….

Let me just say Congrats for surviving this “doomsday”. Glad to see that we all live another day to tell the tale and we can carry on with our lives. Wonder how the extremists are feeling at this moment in time. Annoyed because their belief of the end was wrong or relieved because they are still alive, mixed emotions I suppose. As I mentioned in my previous post I do believe that something huge is going to happen in the world, maybe not  today or tomorrow but someday something will change life as we know it. Could it be another World War? or natural disasters we won’t know until that day is here.

Be Prepared & Act Well.Relieved that the 21st December 2012 is over and we survived ? Oh I wouldn’t be because, Yes we didn’t die but nothing has changed and it still is a world where only the fittest will survive. I don’t mean toned abs and bulging biceps but mentally devious and backstabbing. As in this day and age our best friends could just be a simple disguise of our worst enemy. I warn you bloggers and readers trust few but befriend many. Devious plan right? Well after all we all want to survive this cruel world and there’s a lot of people who are set in destroying others and their happiness. I’m a true believer of Karma the way I think of it is “What goes up must come down…eventually and when it does the force of gravity will hit you 10 times worse”. I beg you not to do anything with ill intentions but simply befriend your enemies and love them like any other. Not only are you annoying them even more which may lead them do worse things behind your back but you’re also giving our good friend karma more to add to the delivery package when it returns to sender :).

Now enough of the planning all in all it really is Survival Of The Fittest in more ways than one and you all want to make sure you can run just a bit just in case of a disaster ;).

Sorry if this post is a bit too erm… dark ? but after all I have to post about what I’m truly feeling and hopefully it helps you too.

 

 

Have a nice evening 🙂 Xx

Don’t Regret It, Don’t Question It – Accept & Learn.

Happy Monday bloggers! Can you call Monday happy? lol unless it’s a bank holiday!. Hope you all had a nice weekend!.

I sometimes feel like an advice guru with my friends.  Not saying that I’m the best at giving advice but I seem to be the one to go to these days and I don’t mind that at all. If I can help a friend in need then that’s why I’m here. After all friends are here to help take some stress off one another,a shoulder to cry on and most importantly fun to be around. Anyway I do learn a lot listening to different problems and the different situations. Some people do get themselves in quite the situation and sometimes I feel as they couldn’t have made a bigger mistake however I never judge their actions but I do try to calm them down and tell them that in the future all this happened to contribute to a bigger picture. This is what I wanted to blog about today, I just want everyone to know that it is Okay to make a mistake and to repeat that mistake a couple of times if its needed  but don’t stay stuck with the “What If’s”, Just move on and depend on your friends to help you move forward. If there’s something I believe in its this. Every bad choice you make in life,every wrong turn you make,every fight and every friendship , there is for a reason for it. How would we know how to differentiate between a good and bad friend if we had not trusted someone whom we shouldn’t have ? How would we not know NOT to do that same action again if we hadn’t done it before?. Especially with friendships,I am sure that most of you think “I wish I had never met him/her”. Stop there, think at one point you must have had fun ? and most importantly did that friendship introduce you to better friends today?. Ask yourself questions TODAY,not questions on what happened yesterday but what and who is in your life today and who you think will be in your life tomorrow.

It’s all in the posts title “Don’t Regret It,Don’t Question It but Accept & Learn from it”. Don’t fight fate,embrace it and by that you will let happiness enter your life and soon you will realise that the bad choices or mistakes that had once took over your mind was nothing but a small glitch along the way to your happiness today. 🙂

Thank you for reading bloggers 🙂 Feel free to Like,Comment or Share 😀 x

Voice Your Opinon !

Hey Bloggers, 🙂 – Me again! I know,i know i havn’t been blogging much! I mostly get my blog ideas when i’m in bed at night and i reflect on the days events,then im too lazy but i will try to keep this up,if you promise to keep reading ;).

Today’s Blog post is about Opinions and how some people are afraid to voice their opinion- & You SHOULD!. I don’t know how many of you watch Big Brother (UK) , but last nights episode really got me thinking how one of the housemates mentioned how shes scared to say what she thinks as they laugh and belittle her. I’m sure this happens to more than one of you reading this and it shouldn’t. You as much as everyone else in this world are entitled to their own opinon whether its 100 people that agree or just the 1. Its your View and it should be expressed and you should be heard! – What happened to “Freedom Of Speech” ? Its not illegal and if people do not agree with it well they will just have to deal with it.

I don’t know how many of you have heard the song by “Natasha Bedingfield – Strip Me” but in her lyrics it says

Take what you want Steal my pride Build me up Or cut me down to size Shut me out But I’ll just scream I’m only one voice in a million but you aint taking that from me.

Better yet here’s the link to the You tube Video 😀 http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vnhDIGTldho

Thank You For Reading 🙂

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Respect!

Hey bloggers,

Hope you’ve had a nice week-end :D. Weather was LOVELY here! I hope its the same this weekend 😀

So the other day I used the bus and i saw something that annoyed me and i’m shocked that i stayed quiet . I don’t know where you live but where i’m from the buses have seats at the front which should have priority to the elderly or disabled people who wish to sit down. Well i was sat close to the end of the bus and i saw this elderly man walk in and all the seats upfront were occupied by elderly people apart from these 2 girls – they must have been 17-19 years of age at the most. They saw this man with a walking stick which helped him move at a slow pace get on the bus and they knew that all other seats for the elderly were taken. They saw him looking and its not like the bus was full, no! the bus had plenty of free seats around but the poor man couldn’t walk to the other seats because there’s a step or two. My way of thinking and being is just ask the elderly person the seat and i can stand seeing as i am young. These girls did not even offer the seat they just carried on speaking.

I live in a small place so we are a tight community these things shouldn’t happen  and they get me so frustrated!. Another elderly man stood up and gave his seat to this man. Obviously other people started moaning about these young girls not even offering the seat and to my surprise the girls gave such a dirty look!. Honestly i don’t know how i remained so calm throughout this journey.

Where has manners,respect for others gone ? – I’m only 20 years old, so i will not generalise but I’m just wondering What would you have done ? Surely not like these girls?

*Need to have a nice tea now to calm myself  *

Have a nice day 😀

Dreams! My experiences

Hey bloggers,
Midday blog here 🙂 Last night i had a vivid dream and i woke up this morning thinking ” Was that real”. It wasn’t a pleasant dream. I was walking down town and i saw someone who i haven’t seen or spoken to in a long time and i remember saying bye and she ignored me shouting ” NOW ! Its Too late !!!!!” . I don’t know about you but i believe that dreams serve a purpose and they always have a hidden meaning. It is also when your subconscious “comes out” and shows us what we are thinking throughout the day but we don’t really take much notice of it.

I saw a documentary once that a human will have on a night 3 dreams but will never remember all 3!.
A year back, around a week or two after my granny passed away my sisters work colleague asked her for a picture of my granny. This was strange, Why would she want one?. Well when my sister showed her a picture her face changed completely!. Apparently she had a dream about this woman talking to her and crying at the same time and to pass a message to her daughter (my mum ), the message said ” You have to take care of yourself! Be strong or you will fall ill” . When i heard this i panicked as one would! We were always a close family so her death affected us deeply!. I actually spoke to a friend of my who studied dreams and turns out my granny went to my sisters colleague because she couldn’t get through to anyone of the family but not to worry as everything is going to be fine. ( This conclusion came after I answered a couple of questions of course).

Do you believe dreams have a deeper meaning? Do you look up the meaning to your dreams? Let me know 😀

Have a good day 😀 x

Nature ! love it not abuse it !

Hey bloggers just a quick note ! As I mentioned on my previous blog post I went for a hike and I took a couple of pictures ! Amazing views!

Most of us take nature for granted! I think we should go out for hikes or even a little picnic every now and again! It’s such beauty that we have out there! I feel great out there so peaceful and calm! And it’s always a good way to lose a little weight 😉

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Awareness

Hey bloggers ! So today I have started to read a book ! I’m not much of a reader but when it comes to Deepak Chopra I love his work!.
The book I’m reading is called

The book of secrets

I’ve only gone about a chapter into this book and this paragraph out of many that have already inspired me jumps out! It outlines one of our faults as humans that we are! Faults that bring hostility to
The mind and create tension within out environment! Here’s the paragraph

Awareness: I will spend ten minutes observing instead of speaking. I will sit quietly by myself just to sense how my body feels. If someone irritates me, I will ask myself what I really feel beneath the anger—and I won’t stop paying attention until the anger is gone

. Today I will go on a hike up the rock I might post something about it tonight but for now I will practise what is said in that paragraph! It’s so easy to just hate someone before giving them a chance! Do we really know them!? Why do we prejudge?? Maybe they are going through a bad time and needs support from friends and we are just prejudging them with no reason!
So I ask you to take a time and just get to know then abit more before getting worked up! Whats the worst that could happen??

Have a nice day 🙂 peacex

“Summer Body”

Hey blog buddies, today I’m going to be a bit hypocrite here. “Summer Body” EVERYONE wants one, everyone wants to improve ,lost weight or tone their bodies more for the summer season. I’m guilty as charged for this!. In fact I think I’m one of the worse ones,hitting the gym more times a week!. At times I feel like I’m a slave for my body!

What i want to ask from you is, if you see that chocolate cake or any junk/fattening food. EAT IT! We only live once and lets enjoy it. ! Lets not be slaves to our bodies any longer! This comes from social pressure and it is understandable. We shouldn’t care what others think,what matters at the end of the day is, Are YOU happy about YOUR body?.

 

Good Day blog Buddies 😀