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Are We ALL Becoming Attention Seekers ? – My Thoughts !

Hey bloggers, I know it’s been a while and I have had this topic at the back of my mind for a couple of weeks now. 10 Years ago I suppose society was VERY different as to what it is today. Attention seekers worked harder to get their attention and noticed and fewer people wanted to be noticed. Do we realise that we are becoming attention seekers? I mean 10 years ago how would you grab someone’s attention without posting anything on any social network sites.

 

Are you an attention seeker? – I think we all are in one way or another. How many of you have Facebook or Twitter? Most if not all I’m sure and some of you will probably use other social networking sites like Tumbler etc. These social networking sites are designed in a way that makes us want to get noticed. On Facebook for example we “update our status” with the intentions for others to read it and later “Like” or Comment. Every day we post (Myself including) the little things everyone does in everyday life, things like the food we eat or what we drink on Facebook just so people will see and know what you’re doing. On Twitter I find people are more open (Myself Included) and people tend to share deeper thoughts even those that when posted on facebook may get a negative feedback.

 

Do we paint this pretty picture on Facebook? – I think most of us paint this mirage of ourselves on Facebook. We all want to be accepted by the majority of society so we post what we think will be “Liked” and accepted by others and with the hope that we will be, in return liked more by others and become that slightly more popular. I think we all post just what we want others to see obviously that is why we control it right? But don’t we all have darker thoughts? Not so nice thoughts that should be shared. After all Facebook does ask “What’s On Your Mind”, On many occasions I have posted an update saying “ Facebook keeps on asking me “What’s on my mind” but I’m scared if I post I will shock a lot of people!” Which I’m sure I will. At the end of the day we all seek acceptance by others and I think Social Networking sites like the ones I mentioned earlier play a bit part in it all. Maybe we don’t all realise it but I think it is getting worse. I am too a victim of this but a couple of weeks ago I was having a discussion with a friend who they claim they “don’t care what others think” So I pointed this out, we all use the edit features for the pictures, we all act as if we have this perfect life on facebook but behind that screen many of us have more insecurities than what we may know we have! Problem is, if we paint this picture too big how can we live up to it?

Hope I haven’t rumbles too much on this, Let me know your thoughts no matter how good or bad:) if you like please Like, Share & Comment!

 

Have a nice day 🙂

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Awareness

Hey bloggers ! So today I have started to read a book ! I’m not much of a reader but when it comes to Deepak Chopra I love his work!.
The book I’m reading is called

The book of secrets

I’ve only gone about a chapter into this book and this paragraph out of many that have already inspired me jumps out! It outlines one of our faults as humans that we are! Faults that bring hostility to
The mind and create tension within out environment! Here’s the paragraph

Awareness: I will spend ten minutes observing instead of speaking. I will sit quietly by myself just to sense how my body feels. If someone irritates me, I will ask myself what I really feel beneath the anger—and I won’t stop paying attention until the anger is gone

. Today I will go on a hike up the rock I might post something about it tonight but for now I will practise what is said in that paragraph! It’s so easy to just hate someone before giving them a chance! Do we really know them!? Why do we prejudge?? Maybe they are going through a bad time and needs support from friends and we are just prejudging them with no reason!
So I ask you to take a time and just get to know then abit more before getting worked up! Whats the worst that could happen??

Have a nice day 🙂 peacex

Letting the anger out!

Hey all you bloggers. Its nearly 12am and i am FURIOUS!. One of the hardest things i think is watching your friends do a huge mistake and you not been able to say or do anything about it . Should i risk the friendship? should i say whats on my mind knowing it will create an argument and may damage the friendship. Should i just keep quiet ? let her be hurt ?. My friend is seeing someone who is lets just say a bad influence and nothing good can come of this. Shes blinded by words. Words are easily said but not often meant.

As i’m sure most of you readers have been through this at one point of your life. What to do stand back ? or open up, free your emotions and risk it all ?. After all life is one big risk, with no risk theres no prize. We sometimes need to risk everything to achieve what we want. Even if the outcome is not what we hoped it may be. Don’t they say keeping it in is bad for your health? but don’t they also say put others first ?. So many questions and obsticles life throws at us. How do we know we are doing the right thing?. Is there a thing as the “Right Choice”. All Choices are right, thats my thought. Wether the outcome is bad,its a mistake you learn from this mistake.

Sorry for rambling on but i guess im conffuzed about this and lost hopefully time will tell and i will know what to do.

Goodnight hope you enjoyed it  & have a great day tomorrow. x

Life is to short!

Life is to short to fight and regret things, when you lose someone is when you will notice how precious life is. So my message for the day is live this day as if it is your last,love life and be with the ones you love. Enjoy your day.

 

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A Way To Release Stress!

Hey Bloggers, In this blog i am going to ask you to comment about your day,a way to blow some steam off. How many off you after work,school or uni go home and are in a bad mood because of the day you had and you take the blame out on your family or friends?

Well today its the last of it , just below just comment and say what has happened to you today,

i had a normal day really it started out badly as i saw my blog’s stats and unfortunately it was great 😦 then at work i was BORED i felt like i needed something new and exiting to walk into my life,i am sure all of you have felt that way before, if so also leave it in a comment:)

 

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New Year Message!

First of all let me wish everyone a happy new year and all the best for 2009!

2009 so fast already, if 2008 has taught me anything is don’t take anything for granted. Especially Family and Friends Or Lovers for those lucky ones. As in many cases you only get one chance so think hard before you act as you may not get another chance to experience it again, i made that mistake in 2008 . So don’t waste your time hating the things that can’t be changed but love the things right in your life.

I would like to apologize for not blogging as many things has been happening in my life which i will be blogging it here soon! thank you all for your support!

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