Monthly Archives: August 2012

SEX! – Frustation ?

Hey bloggers :), So todays blog will not be as serious as others, hope you don’t mind but we shouldn’t take life so serious all of the time! Besides i will raise some valid points.

Has anyone noticed how over the past number of years everything has become much more sexual ?. Everywhere we look it has some kind of hidden sexual agenda. I think big companies have finally figured out how to reach out to everyone. From selling a simple t-shirts to lipstick. Do i find anything wrong in this ? NO!.  A lot of people are too quick to shut down a conversation about sex or anything related to it simply because they are either too embarrassed to talk about it or they find it inappropriate (or should i say “Socially Unacceptable” ). Lets get one thing straight here – Everyone has had or will have sex,sexual intercourse,coitus or whatever you prefer to call it. Its how we deeply express our emotions for one another be it Female & Male, Male & Male or Female & Female. So now that we all agree on this we can openly talk about this topic.
I think the biggest change has been in songs,especially from the biggest stars like Rihanna (e.g S&M),Lady GaGa (e.g Love Game) and alot more yet the whole topic is still seen as a topic of conversation where you can’t discuss it comfortably in a social place. Do you think we will ever get to a time where all of this is not so secretive ?. Everyone today is becoming more sexually advanced should i say? Maybe because it’s so easy now just to learn about these things as to before you had to be taught.

Masturbation – The one things all humans do yet only 1 in 1,000 agree on actually masturbating. It’s a normal thing that everyone does. Its even proven to be healthy so you shouldn’t be ashamed about it. If anyone watched the last series of Big Brother UK there was a housemate who actually wanted to bring a message across on how normal it is and nobody should be ashamed about it. So if your body asks for it … GO FOR IT!.

 

But Remember No matter what always use protection 😉

 

Have a nice day 😀

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Lessons Or Mistakes

Did I make a mistake ? – Will I learn from it ? – Was there a reason for that to happen how it did ?.

I bet that you have asked yourself those questions at some point, especially when you’re going through a bad patch. Answers are, Yes you made a mistake and yes, you will learn from it. If you go back to one of my earlier posts I do strongly believe in that “Everything Happens For A  Reason”.  Life truly is like school the only way you learn is by doing it wrong but instead of having a teacher correct your mistakes you,yourself will have to be your life’s own teacher. You will only receive guidance when you’re growing up and from that ,later on in life you will be able to teach yourself when you make an error in life. We are all brought up differently but I hope that we can all tell the difference between what’s right and wrong.

I made a mistake in life around 2 years ago and I was hoping that no one would find out. Stupid of me thinking that as I live in a small place. Don’t worry I didn’t do anything illegal haha. It’s a mistake that I was worried that would make others see me differently. We all know small towns means a lot of gossip and everyone knowing everyone it was bound to get out. I admit to being scared of what the outcome is.  What if more people find out ? but all I can do is wait and let nature takes its course I suppose. I believe that everything is happening how it is for a reason. I have big nerves in my stomach when I think about it and I go through these mood swings but I’ll let you know in a little secret – I’m Human. So I will embrace future mistakes,learn from it and hope for the best! as for now I hope this goes by so I can live comfortably again.

Hope you have a good one 🙂

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Normal? Or Socially Acceptable!

Hey bloggers 🙂 , Have any of your friends ever told you “you’re not normal” . I’m sure they have, mine do quite a lot lol. Especially with one of my close friends who I speak to for hours a day so eventually we tend to speak about silly things and make long conversations about anything really. I also say Whats the fun in being normal ? Really what is ?. Actually can anyone define “Being Normal?” I believe there is no such thing as “being normal”. Every person has their own thoughts on what normal is. Depends on the person’s state of mind is how they categorize what is normal and what is not. You have some people that are louder than others, so whilst one thinks it is “normal” to shout the other thinks ” he’s acting up”.

Many of us mistake some actions as not being normal just because it would be too embarrassing therefore it’s not socially acceptable,by this i mean minor actions and not any anti-social behaviour. We live in an era where celebrities and TV shows dictate most of our actions in everyday life. (Don’t get me wrong I’m guilty as charged) , What you see on tv is manufactured to look as close to perfect as it can possibly can so its alright not to have the things you see on TV or magazines or to look how they look. So be loud, have fun and let your hair down 🙂 Do what feels right and just let your soul come out. People will love you more for it.

Have a nice daybloggers 🙂

PJ’s Dream :) Share yours to!

Hey bloggers 🙂 – So we all have a dream…No! we actually have more than one type of dream. A dream that you can achieve and a dream which the chances of happening are around 0.00000000000000000000000000000001% (If that even is an accurate percentage but hey,lets pretend it is :)). So I will tell you my unrealistic dream and I’m sure all of you will have thought something similar to this.

So my unrealistic dream is to win the big Euromillions jackpot (£££££). Yes all those millions and I have plans for them to!. Well maybe not a plan to spend ALL of the money. Firstly i would give some to my mum,who by far is the person whom i look up to the most. Then i would give to my 2 older sisters and lastly i would open a savings account for my adorable nieces. Okay boring part over. So, my plan is obviously quit my day-to-day job. Will probably travel A LOT more go partying here and there becasue at the end of the day YOLO (You Only Live Once). After a year im guessing ill be ready to settle down. Now i always say that actors/actress have perfect bodies because they don’t have a 5 or 6 day week jobs, so their time is devoted at the gym. I would do the same i will go more to the gym than what i do now (which to be honest i hardly go haha). Apart from that i would like to do some volunteer work with R.I.C.C ( Research Into Childhood Cancer) . It’s a trust which I feel strongly about  so I will also devote my time to them. Last by not least ,as most people would, i would buy a nice big house with a pool,jacuzzi and maybe built-in gym! ? haha… Oh! Don’t worry my blogging wouldn’t end actually…I would blog even more!.

However that is a fantasy which I think having a fantasy is healthy for the soul. Gives you something to hope for i suppose.

Realistically speaking now,i would like to study Psychology and become a child psychologist OR go into nursing. I don’t know what it is and this may sound weird to some of you but there’s something inside of me that tells me i was put on this earth to do something greater. I think i can achieve that by helping others,There are others out there that need more help than I do and by reaching out and doing that I feel I would have actually done something worthy with my life.

It is important to know that you ,yourself can achieve anything you want in life and don’t let others tell you otherwise. If you are determined and work hard enough for it you WILL achieve your dream 🙂 I know it is very cliché of me to say that but I honestly do believe in it.

Well that is all 🙂 Hope you liked my Dreams 😀 Share yours to 🙂 Feel free to share my blog 🙂 Have a nice day x

Simple Blog Post To End My Day :)

Hey bloggers 🙂 A little blog post to end my day, nothing to serious :).

Had a lovely day at the beach today,Sun was shinning and the water was a bit on the cold side to. I was tanning and me and my friends over heard a group of people speaking about the book 50 Shades Of Grey in-depth. I’m sure most of you have heard about this book – If you haven’t lets just say it’s not suitable for kids. All in all was such a lovely day and I wouldn’t say I conquered a fear as it’s not a fear as such but i did something I’ve never done because I have never been confident enough in doing so. Me and one of my friends swam to the Boye in the sea and back. So I would say I achieved something today, something minor but nevertheless it is something.

 

I think  chilled days with your close friends are always needed. Besides the week starts tomorrow so that means back to work, or school to some of you. Waking up early for me is one of the hardest things to do!. Well i leave you with a little picture of the beach today and hope you have a good evening. Hope to hear from you 🙂 ‘Till tomorrow x

Lovely day at the beach

Music Brings Shivers To The Body As It Sends The Message To The Heart

Hey Bloggers 🙂  – How is everyone’s weekend going ? good i hope. I have had a rather unproductive Saturday really haha having one of those laying about doing nothing all day days. Anyways todays post is about – one of my favourite topics MUSIC 🙂 . Theres an old blog post i did quite some time ago that mentions one of my favourite quotes off all time “Reading Is To The Mind As Music Is to The Soul” . Music is such a powerful thing, it can change your mood or it can express your current mood even further whether it make you feel happier ,sadder, more exited etc. I listen to nearly all genres of music really but the one thing i LOVE about some songs are the shivers. The moment where your arm hairs all stand up and you get that cool shiver – That is the moment where that piece of music/lyric has touched you. If your going through a bad time or happy time and you just hear that single verse and you get those shivers running down your spine for me is amazing.

Ed Sheeran is one of the few artists that sound better live than on a recorded and edited CD ( In my opinion). He has that soft voice that makes the room go quite. You feel every word he sings and he projects the meaning and feeling of the song in such a way. I’ve attached one of his songs down below which i love. He also has another song called “Small Bump” which he also wrote. This song speaks about hes girlfriend who’s suffered a miscarriage and the lyrics are just immense. Anyways don’t let me ramble on about Ed Sheeran, I just thought I should share one of hes songs.

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Enjoy the rest of your Saturday :).

Words Hurt!

Hey Bloggers, so for those of you that have read my previous post you will know that i went out last night with friends. We were joking around etc but then as a “joke” they said somethings that i did not take as a joke. I know the classic response to this would be “Its just a joke, don’t be like that” etc etc but they were personal things and as close friends i think they should know better right? At least I thought they did.

I always try,when making jokes not to make them personal or about things we have shared about in a private conversation. Makes me think when im not around, do they speak about me ? . I know they speak to me about others and confide in me not to say a word. Yet again If they speak to me about others whats stopping them from doing the same with others about me ?. I guess it all takes trust? and trust is a thing that is easily broken and never repaired no matter how much you try. EVERYONE is vulnerable no matter how much they try to precieve they are not. but they calls for another post another day don’t want to ramble on too much! . For now i will enjoy my evening,will be going out for dinner with some friends 🙂

– Remember When Making Jokes Don’t Make Them To Personal,Or Try To View Your Friends Reaction To See If They’ve Taken It The Wrong Way-

have a good night! xx

Update From Yesterdays Blog Post!

Hey Bloggers, just a quick blog update. So If you read yesterdays blog post it speaks about how you should voice your opinion no matter what, you view is as good as anyone else’s.

Well last night i went out with some of my closest friends and we were speaking,joking around etc the usual,however as “jokes” some of them did say some comments in which i didn’t find that funny to be honest (Might blog about this later on today). After this i wasn’t in a very good mood so i was just basically giving my honest opinion in every situation and i was told that i  seemed “Unhappy and Grumpy” – To be honest i felt like saying “No – I’m just speaking the truth and how i feel why cover it up”. I didn’t to avoid conflict to be honest but i suppose then the phrase “Honesty Is The Best Policy” is not entirely true and sometimes your opinions should be kept to yourself in order to avoid any conflicts or hurting any-ones feelings.

Have a nice day, watch out for a post later on :).

Voice Your Opinon !

Hey Bloggers, 🙂 – Me again! I know,i know i havn’t been blogging much! I mostly get my blog ideas when i’m in bed at night and i reflect on the days events,then im too lazy but i will try to keep this up,if you promise to keep reading ;).

Today’s Blog post is about Opinions and how some people are afraid to voice their opinion- & You SHOULD!. I don’t know how many of you watch Big Brother (UK) , but last nights episode really got me thinking how one of the housemates mentioned how shes scared to say what she thinks as they laugh and belittle her. I’m sure this happens to more than one of you reading this and it shouldn’t. You as much as everyone else in this world are entitled to their own opinon whether its 100 people that agree or just the 1. Its your View and it should be expressed and you should be heard! – What happened to “Freedom Of Speech” ? Its not illegal and if people do not agree with it well they will just have to deal with it.

I don’t know how many of you have heard the song by “Natasha Bedingfield – Strip Me” but in her lyrics it says

Take what you want Steal my pride Build me up Or cut me down to size Shut me out But I’ll just scream I’m only one voice in a million but you aint taking that from me.

Better yet here’s the link to the You tube Video 😀 http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vnhDIGTldho

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