Monthly Archives: October 2010

Bad Times

Hey blog buddies, todays blog isn’t as happy as it could be. Life is hard and full of times where we just want to give up and feel like nothing is worth it ?, Wrong,family ,friends,been thankful we have a house and food,! When one thing goes bad it seems that everything else goes bad too. Why do we think like that? . Why is it we think negative before postive?. Is it because it is easier and we are afriad of failure?
Through this bad time i am facing i will be trying to look on the bright side of things, i hope if you are going through a bad time you too can look on the bright side!

have a great day, love you all x

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Wanting The Unobtainable

Hey Bloggers :)! , Today’s blog is overused and probably everyone has heard about it but i have experienced this for the last couple of days.

We All Want What We Can’t Have. There you have it, the truth and we all suffer from that. It EATS us up inside seeing this thing,hearing about this person and not been able to have it. So Close but yet so far away. So true, for months i have wanted this person and i mean more than a friend kind of way;)!. The way they look,smell,talk,smile. Kills me not been able to have this person by my side!. I just want to jump out and say it ! risk it all! After all life is one big risk but we think before we act, even those who say I don’t think before i act…. You do,subconsciously we all do.

I think we need to stop for a second…just a second and think…. Why do i want this ? i have lived all this time without this object or person,whatever it is we desire. I have had fun ,haven’t i not ?…So Why must we beat ourselves up, be miserable for the day,stress out and be depressed because we can’t get what we want. Did you know it takes as much energy to be happy than to be sad..So which would you rather be ?, I’m voting to be happy, life is too short to be sad :)!, Everything will fall into place,even if at the end of the day we do not get what we once wanted, there’s a reason for that maybe a bigger purpose why it did not end that way. Remember it happened like it did for a reason 🙂

Have a great day and remember think Pink, Tomorrow is Pink Day, remembering all those who have passed away,together we WILL beat cancer :)x

Pink Day 2010

Tomorrow is known as Pink Day, Breast Cancer Awareness Day.! I will be changing my blog’s colour to PINK! 🙂 i will attach a link so take a look 🙂

R.I.P to everyone who has passed away! Together We Can Beat Cancer!

http://www.wearitpink.co.uk/

Fortune!

Hey Bloggers. I saw myself fighting with myself today,thinking if i should post this blog or not!.

Today i went to a Tariot reader/fortune teller, it was my first time. Most people speculate that its a bunch of lies. So i wanted to judge by myself. Result is, i am shocked. I was left speechless. As some of you may know, no one i know knows i write this blog. I have told no one about this. The Reader today told me as i sat down ” O my you are good with litrature,and don’t give it up”. First thing that came into my head was this blog and other things i also write. She also suprised me saying i give alot of advice to others, my friend agreed with her when i told my friend what she had said.

So instead of hearing what others say, go for it, it’s a new experience! 🙂

Sterotypes!

Society has always judged people by what they wear or how the look like. The typical “Goth” will wear black and be gloom. The typical “homosexual” will be the “campest” person out of the group and so on. Why do we judge people on there looks?.

Isn’t our Personalites what makes us a person ? An item of clothing does not define who i am. The colour of my hair or eyes does not tell you what “social group” i belong too. Social group is just a word to help people understand where they belong. I don’t believe in Social Groups, i have all sorts of friends and i love it.

Today i found myself speaking to a couple of my friends and they are nothing alike and i love it,it shows me that not only should i not judge someone by there “label” but to look beyond there appearance!.

So i ask you? Do you judge wrongly?

Goodnight x

Words!

Words. Letters combined together to create Wordsa meaning which will be used as part of a sentence. Words spoken. Spoken too much. Words Are said too often but rarely meant!.
How do we know others are being honest?. “I Love You” 3 words that are often said. Love ? big word to use. Big emotion.
Why do we say things we don’t feel?. Just to make others feel better? but in the process we are just lieing not only to them but to ourselves. Try not to lie, be honest 🙂 I love writing blogs. I get days with a lot of Stats which make me happier than ever, other days are not so good but i don’t give up :). I LOVE writing. Expressing myself with words i mean 🙂

thanks for reading & Goodnight

Routine!

Daily Routine. Most of us has a daily routine. Get up at the same time. Go to work or school, same activites. No Adventure and Mystery. We may think life gets boring after a while.

Make tomorrow spontanious!. Tomorrow do something out of the ordinary!. Live life to the fullest for one day 😛 No Excuses. Most of us use the excuse “Im To Old”  or “Im To Young” and the overused “Im Too Tired”. Life is too short to let it slip by. One day your life will flash before your eyes,make sure it is worth watching!.

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Have a good night :)x

Starting A New Week! Morning Thoughts!

Good Morning Bloggers :), Thank you for taking the time to read my blog. I Woke up earlier than usual for work today thinking, Great Week-end is over back to the normal routine!. I bet most of us think this especially on a Monday morning. Why Should We? Surely if thats our first thoughts of the day our day may not be as good as we could make it!. Im taking a stand today!, I’m going to think positive. I’m going to handle everything that today throws at me in a calm manner, trying to think positive to everything that happens throughout the day. Been thankful that i have a job, i receive a salary that enables me to pay for food,clothes,a roof over my head and alot more. I Am willing to work for this! Think Positive in the morning look at the bright side of things! Love Every moment of your day. So i hope you all have a brilliant day 🙂 I’m thinking i will have a great day. So i hope you do too 🙂

 Like & Comment i look forward to read yoNew Dayur feedback.

Letting the anger out!

Hey all you bloggers. Its nearly 12am and i am FURIOUS!. One of the hardest things i think is watching your friends do a huge mistake and you not been able to say or do anything about it . Should i risk the friendship? should i say whats on my mind knowing it will create an argument and may damage the friendship. Should i just keep quiet ? let her be hurt ?. My friend is seeing someone who is lets just say a bad influence and nothing good can come of this. Shes blinded by words. Words are easily said but not often meant.

As i’m sure most of you readers have been through this at one point of your life. What to do stand back ? or open up, free your emotions and risk it all ?. After all life is one big risk, with no risk theres no prize. We sometimes need to risk everything to achieve what we want. Even if the outcome is not what we hoped it may be. Don’t they say keeping it in is bad for your health? but don’t they also say put others first ?. So many questions and obsticles life throws at us. How do we know we are doing the right thing?. Is there a thing as the “Right Choice”. All Choices are right, thats my thought. Wether the outcome is bad,its a mistake you learn from this mistake.

Sorry for rambling on but i guess im conffuzed about this and lost hopefully time will tell and i will know what to do.

Goodnight hope you enjoyed it  & have a great day tomorrow. x

Love Or Obssesion ?

Missing the attention we once had,did we ever love the person?or the attention we were givenIt has been quite some time since i last wrote a blog. My life has changed so much since then and the main factor has been Love ? but at times i think maybe i’m Obsessed. Obsessed with the attention i have been given. Seeking that attention from that person. We all have or have had one person who gives us there undivided attention, wether it is sending txt messages and calls at any time of the day, and if we take it for granted the person may give up and stop giving you this attention.This is when you begin to “love” them. Or is it we seek the attention they once gave us ? makes us feel special ? so many questions. Lifes Short so don’t take anyone for granted as. They may move on and then it would be too late.
Live,Laugh & Enjoy Life!, You only get one life,one shot.